ISTIQOMAH, VEGA DIAN (2026) PEMAKNAAN PERILAKU MANIPULATIF DALAM KOMUNIKASI INTERPERSONAL PADA HUBUNGAN PERCINTAAN. S1 thesis, Universitas Mercu Buana Jakarta.
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Abstract
Romantic relationships are generally expected to provide a sense of safety, comfort, and mutual support between partners. However, in practice, interpersonal communication in romantic relationships does not always occur in a healthy and open manner. Manipulative behavior may emerge through interpersonal communication, both verbally and nonverbally, and may initially be disguised as forms of care and affection, making it difficult to recognize. This study aims to understand how individuals interpret manipulative behavior that occurs in interpersonal communication within romantic relationships, from the perspectives of both individuals who engage in and those who experience such behavior. This study employs a qualitative method with a phenomenological approach. This approach is used to understand the subjective experiences of informants and to organize the research findings hierarchically, beginning with first-order constructs that represent the informants’ experiences and perspectives, followed by second�order constructs that reflect the researcher’s interpretation of the patterns identified. The subjects of this study were individuals who had experienced romantic relationships involving manipulative behavior. The research paradigm employed is constructivism, which views meaning as being constructed through individuals’ experiences and interactions with their social environment. The findings indicate that manipulative behavior in interpersonal communication within romantic relationships occurs in several forms, including silent treatment, playing victim, and love bombing, which are expressed through verbal and nonverbal communication. Informants interpreted these behaviors differently based on their positions and experiences within the relationship. For those who experienced the behavior, manipulation was interpreted as a form of communication that generated fear of losing their partner, feelings of guilt, emotional dependence, anxiety, overthinking, emotional exhaustion, and even a loss of self-identity. Meanwhile, for those who engaged in the behavior, manipulation was interpreted as a means of seeking emotional validation and attention, as well as a form of self-protection, which in the process could lead to self-reflection and regret. These experiences subsequently shaped the informants’ understanding of healthy romantic relationships as relationships built upon open communication, a sense of safety, equality, mutual respect, and the freedom to be oneself Keywords : Meaning, Manipulative Behavior, Interpersonal Communication, Romantic Relationships, Phenomenology rasa aman, nyaman, serta dukungan antara kedua belah pihak. Namun, dalam praktiknya, komunikasi interpersonal dalam hubungan percintaan tidak selalu berlangsung secara sehat dan terbuka. Perilaku manipulatif dapat muncul melalui proses komunikasi interpersonal, baik secara verbal dan nonverbal, yang pada awalnya dapat tersamarkan dalam bentuk kepedulian dan kasih sayang sehingga sulit dikenali. Penelitian ini bertujuan untuk mengetahui dan memahami bagaimana individu memaknai perilaku manipulatif yang terjadi dalam komunikasi interpersonal pada hubungan percintaan, baik dari perspektif individu yang melakukan perilaku maupun menerima perilaku. Metode penelitian yang digunakan adalah metode kualitatif dengan pendekatan fenomenologis. Pendekatan ini digunakan untuk memahami pengalaman subjektif informan serta menyusun order construct temuan penelitian secara berjenjang, mulai dari konstruk derajat pertama ( ) yang merepresentasikan pengalaman dan pandangan informan, first�hingga konstruk derajat kedua ( interpretasi peneliti terhadap pola-pola yang ditemukan. Subjek penelitian adalah second-order construct) yang merupakan hasil individu yang pernah menjalani hubungan percintaan yang di dalamnya terdapat perilaku manipulatif. Paradigma penelitian yang digunakan adalah paradigma konstruktivisme yang memandang bahwa makna dibentuk melalui pengalaman dan interaksi individu dengan lingkungan sosialnya. Hasil penelitian menunjukkan bahwa perilaku manipulatif dalam komunikasi interpersonal pada hubungan percintaan muncul dalam beberapa bentuk, di antaranya silent treatment, playing victim nonverbal. Informan memaknai perilaku tersebut secara berbeda berdasarkan posisi , dan love bombing, yang diwujudkan melalui komunikasi verbal maupun dan pengalaman mereka dalam hubungan. Pada penerima perilaku, manipulatif dimaknai sebagai bentuk komunikasi yang menimbulkan ketakutan kehilangan pasangan, rasa bersalah, ketergantungan emosional, kecemasan, kelelahan emosional, hingga hilangnya identitas diri. Sementara itu, pada pemberi overthinking, perilaku, manipulatif dimaknai sebagai cara untuk memperoleh validasi emosional, perhatian, maupun sebagai bentuk perlindungan diri yang dalam prosesnya dapat menimbulkan refleksi dan penyesalan. Pengalaman tersebut kemudian membentuk pemaknaan informan mengenai hubungan percintaan yang sehat, yaitu hubungan yang dibangun melalui komunikasi terbuka, rasa aman, kesetaraan, saling menghargai, serta kebebasan untuk menjadi diri sendiri. Kata Kunci:Pemaknaan, Perilaku Manipulatif, Komunikasi Interpersonal, Hubungan Percintaan, Fenomenologi
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